i feel as if i have a load off my chest. finally i was able to tell my mum about wilfred totally. finally there were no need for lies. finally, she seemed to accept him. i've waited one and a half years juz to allow her to slowly accept the fact that i have a bf and the constant fear with regards to wilfred's qualifications plague me like a nightmare that wouldn't leave. finally i was able to come clean.

for a mum with a daughter in her first r/s, i would say my mum is exceptionally understanding so much so that i am amazed. she have never objected even once for me to be in a r/s nor have she kicked up any fuss of any kind. perhaps once in awhile her sharp questioning scares me, leaving me wondering how she figured out where i went or wad we did. she said, the most impt wilfred needs is at least, get an O level cert. cos w/o dat, he can't even apply for a hse. to b able to start a family and live a life together, for a basic we nid a home and wilfred nids to be financially stable at least, for a home to call our own. the very fact that she actually mentioned "mebbe next time u n him want to have a home, at least must be joint acc..." duno y but this line sets me to relief. somehow i feel a sense of acceptance.. haha..